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Hubby

on June 7, 2013

In the midst of our loss, I haven’t given any updates on hubby. The truth is, hubby is doing very well. Ever since he started taking the immunosuppressants, his pain has been declining, and he has been pain-free for awhile now. Even though we are cautious about celebrating too early, we are both so happy that he is feeling better, and I have been hoping and praying that his body is finally going into remission and this is not short-lived. Maybe this is the magic combo that will help him, and even if it isn’t, I am so thankful for the relief he is feeling now.

I’ve also mentioned before that hubby is a volunteer fire fighter and trying to get a full-time fire job. Last weekend, hubby went to Nashville and did his live burn so he is now certified to go into burning buildings and has all the prerequisites to test for his state level 1 fire certification. He was really hoping to get a job at a local department because they received a grant to hire four more full-time employees and he had more certifications than the other guys in the running, but we found out last Thursday that he was not chosen. That’s right, Thursday morning we learned that Tup’s heart was no longer beating, and later that day, hubby found out that he didn’t get his dream job. It was like being kicked when you are down. (Also, if you were paying attention to the dates, hubby was out of town Friday night through Sunday evening for his live burn, so I was on my own after we found out about Tup). For now, hubby is putting in applications at different departments and trying to get as many certifications as he can, and he is starting a new job next week. His job now is terrible and unstable so we decided months ago that he would find another one if he wasn’t one of the four. So he isn’t working his dream job yet, but hopefully he will be happier where he is going.

So, like every other aspect of my life right now, there is a lot of celebration and disappointment in the hubby department. (Who would want an average life when you can have one that’s full of extreme joys and heartbreaks?)

Be on the lookout for a post about what we are working on during yet another baby-free summer.

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3 responses to “Hubby

  1. I’m glad that your husband is feeling better, but that sucks that he didn’t get the dream job! Has he gone back to the fire dept to ask why he didn’t get the job/what they were looking for?

    • Unfortunately, fire departments around here work on the “good ‘ole boy” system, and he hasn’t been around as long as the guys who were hired. They hire from the volunteer list, and one guy who was hired volunteered ALL THE TIME and even took a week off work and volunteered every day that week. Hubby volunteered as well, but he couldn’t miss work and chose to actually spend time with his wife. It sucks, but that’s just the way it is.

  2. Cristy says:

    So glad to hear the immunosuppression is working! That’s a big step in the right direction. I’ll keep my fingers crossed that the pain-free trend will continue.

    Very sorry to hear about the job at the fire department. I agree with you that a lot of it has to do with being in the “in” group and who you know. Because of that, is there any way that he can integrate himself better? One idea is scheduling a follow-up meeting with the head of that department to talk about strategies and what they’re looking for. I did something similar years ago for my career path and what it did was open the door to a couple of opportunities I was unaware of. This ultimately helped me with getting into graduate school and beginning the networking process that is so important for my field. Anyway, I hope the next round of applications is more fruitful.

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